DEALING WITH MEAN PEOPLE…..

One of the reasons that being harsh to mean people isn’t terribly effective, but infact that people learn most through personal experience or by observation of others.

Giving someone a taste of their own medicine is very unlikely to teach them anything new or show them that there’s a better way.

By being harsh to mean people, you’re simply showing them a behavior they’re already familiar with. All your negative actions do; is demonstrate that you can stoop to their level. And now instead of just one person acting bad, there are two. Rather than solving the problem, it makes matters worse.

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